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Thoughts, ruminations, recommendations from a mindfulness therapist. My life has been a mix of literary exploration, government work, and global education. My journey has taken me across the world—from working with street children in Romania to teaching in South Korea—before returning home to focus on crisis management and therapy.

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Fifteen Books That Made Me
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA Books have been my most loyal companions. I’ve been reading since I was old enough to understand that the world was bigger than my family, bigger than the town where I grew up, bigger even than the United States. Books were my way out and my way in. They taught me how to live, how to argue, how to be tender. They’ve never once ghosted me, though I’ve been guilty of ignoring them. Below are fifteen that shaped me. Not in some linear list, not as a c
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Nov 24, 20256 min read


Literature Review: Acceptance and Motivation Inquiry
Literature Review Acceptance / Motivation Inquiry (AMI) Lex E Santí, LCSW, MFA Introduction Client engagement in psychotherapy is a...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Sep 19, 202517 min read


Remembering Greg Eells, Six Years On
Reflection on Mourning in the Shadow of a Giant at Cornell By Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA On September 9, 2019, the Cornell community...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Sep 8, 20253 min read


Query Letters, Rejection, and the Midnight Rider
A Field Guide to Agents, Queries, and Other Creative Punishments Lex E. Santi, LCSW, MFA At one point in its life, Song of the Midnight...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Sep 3, 20254 min read


So You Want to Start a Private Practice? Here’s the Roadmap (2 of 2)
Beginning your private practice, step-by-step... It's been 6 years since I started my private practice and I love it. If the first part...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Aug 29, 20253 min read


Why I Love Having a Private Practice (And Why You Might Too) (1 of 2)
A therapist’s joy in small rooms with big conversations Lex E. Santi, LCSW, MFA One of the wonderful things about becoming a therapist —...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Aug 26, 20252 min read


Gatekeeping and Deportation
On Latinidad, fear, and who gets to belong I saw this meme recently — a hand-drawn fortress surrounded by moat after moat, each layer...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Aug 21, 20254 min read


Gaza, Grief, and the Ghosts of Our Wars
Lex E Santi, LCSW, MFA In the days after 9/11, there was a feeling in the United States that something irreversible had cracked open, not just buildings, not just lives, but the idea that war could ever be clean, swift, or justified by pain alone. We have been collectively fighting that system of fear and terror ever since. What followed: Afghanistan, Iraq, drone strikes, proxy wars, black sites, enhanced interrogations, the blank check of homeland security — taught us that v
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Aug 15, 20254 min read


The Meditation That Got Derailed by a Trip to Wegmans
Lex Enrico Santi, LCSW MFA I tell this story a lot, purposefully, as beginning a meditation project is brutal and stories and while...
Lex Enrico Santí, LCSW, MFA
Aug 6, 20254 min read
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